My husband was shot and I was raped when my son was at home: crimes of the Russian military

The 33-year-old Ukrainian woman told The Times that she had been raped by drunken Russian soldiers for several hours. This is just one of the crimes of the Russian invaders in the Kyiv region.

The occupiers shot her husband in the yard, and his body was lying at the gate. All this time, her 4-year-old son was at home, hiding in the boiler room.

«I shot your husband because he was a Nazi,» the Russian told her.

Two occupiers forced the woman to undress and raped her in turn, putting a gun to her temple. She said they were very drunk.

«They did not care that my son was crying in the boiler room. I was ordered to shut him up and return.

When they finally fell asleep, I ran to my son. I told him we had to run very fast. Otherwise, we will be shot.

At the gate, the son saw his father’s body, but in the dark he did not realize that it was him. He asked me, «Will we be shot in the same way as this man?» The woman said.

Together with her son, the woman managed to escape to western Ukraine. She had not yet told her son that his father is no longer alive.

«I could have kept quiet, and not spoken about rape. But when we came to the police, my husband’s sister persuaded me to talk about it. There was no way back. I understand that many people who have suffered choose to remain silent because they are afraid. Many people do not believe that such horrible things happen,» said the victim.


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Will there be punishment?

On March 22, the Prosecutor General of Ukraine Iryna Venediktova announced that Ukrainian law enforcement officials had announced the first suspicion of a rape of a woman in the Kyiv region by a Russian aggressor. According to her, in one of the villages in the Brovary district, a Russian soldier broke into a private house and shot the owner.

“After that, the drunken occupier and his colleague repeatedly raped the wife of the murdered civilian, threatening her with violence and weapons,» the prosecutor general said at the time.

The Russian military was suspected of violating the laws and customs of war. A warrant has been issued and a request for detention was filed with the court.

A photo of Russian commander Mikhail Romanov and his family later appeared online, along with a report that he raped a Ukrainian woman. There were also reports on the Internet that he had already been killed by the Armed Forces. There is no confirmation of this information.


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Rape by the Russian military

According to international humanitarian expert Kateryna Busol in a commentary for The New York Times, information about rape and sexual violence began to appear almost immediately after Russia invaded Ukraine.

«What we hear from the victims is appalling. These are cases of gang rape, child rape and sexual assault after the murder of family members,” she said.

On March 9, Dariya Kaleniuk, executive director of the Center for Combating Corruption, wrote about two cases of alleged rape and murder in Kyiv Oblast.

«My friends, two young girls, were tortured, raped and killed. One of them was an excellent doctor, and the other was a scientist and had a doctorate in philosophy,» said Kalenyuk.

The activist said she could not reveal the name of the woman she quoted, but allowed the media to quote her. It is impossible to verify this story during the war.

Another story about Mariupol:

«The woman was raped every day for a week in front of her 6-year-old son. And Nastya writes that her friend died today. Terrible bleeding, tears. Unfortunately, they could not save her. The son was left alone with a lock of gray hair.”

His father had been taken away by the Russian military earlier. According to the victim’s friend, her son is in a hospital in Kyiv. Needless to say, a psychiatrist works with him.

The Interior Ministry also believes that the Russian occupiers are committing rape in the occupied territories, but at present these cases are simply impossible to document. This, in particular, is evidenced by the conversations of the invaders intercepted by the Ukrainian special services, explains the adviser to the Minister of Internal Affairs, Anton Gerashchenko, on Radio Svoboda.

In an intercepted conversation Gerashchenko mentioned, a Russian military man probably spoke about the rape, which was probably committed by another Russian soldier: «Dude, this is my buddy. Look, he says, I drove into the yard in a tank… I went into the house, I took out the door, he says. I shot everyone, killed them, he says, f*ck them, he says


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Will russian troops land in Odesa?

At present, the threat of a Russian landing near Odessa is not significant. The Armed Forces prepared for a possible landing and built lines of defense.

Alina Frolova, Deputy Chairwoman of the Board of the Center for Defense Strategies, Deputy Minister of Defense of Ukraine (2019-2020), said on Hromadse Radio.

Attempts have already been made.

«But Russian personnel refused to land. There was an internal revolt on the ships. Probably because they understood that the coast was ready for them. There is now evidence that staff are being replaced in order to make this landing. But our military claims that this will not happen,» Alina Frolova explains.

But it is important to understand that in various ways, the Russian army will continue to try to take control of the Black Sea coast. On March 30, Vladislav Nazarov, officer of the South Operational Command, said that Russian ships were continuing to maneuver near Odesa. Meaning that there is a threat of landing Russian troops.

On March 22, a spokesman for the operational headquarters of the Odesa OVA reported that personnel of the Russian Marine Corps, which were preparing for the storming of Odesa, were destroyed by the Armed Forces near Mykolayiv and Mariupol.

According to Alina Frolova, Russian propaganda is now inflating the story of the Ukrainian’ mines in the Black Sea as a way to stage provocations, which it will later accuse Ukraine of.

«Russia can, for example, blow up civilian ships and then say that this is a danger created by Ukraine. Ukraine has already officially announced that no mines have taken place. And also that the Russian Federation for years blocked work on demining.

We suspect that the Russians will use old-fashioned Soviet or post-Soviet mines in Ukraine and Russia. Again, to be able to blame Ukraine,» she explains.

The expert emphasizes that it is very dangerous for civilian ships to leave Ukrainian ports through any of the corridors organized or guaranteed by Russia. After all, they may suffer from these Russian provocations.


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Is Russia withdrawing troops from the Kyiv region?

Both the military and intelligence of partner countries say that this can not be assessed as Russia’s withdrawal of troops. Rather, it is a regrouping. At the same time, for example, this is not happening in Chernihiv. In addition, the Russians do not believe that they should stop rocket fire.

«In just a few days you can see a steady trend. Even if Russia withdraws ground troops, this does not mean that they will not return. The Armed Forces will still watch their moves and will remain ready.

There are areas where the Ukrainian military pushed the Russians for tens of kilometers. Irpin was also taken back under our control. But we cannot say that Russian troops withdrew voluntarily. They are leaving because they were defeated here,” says Alina Frolova.

As the Russian army has failed to take Kyiv and other major cities, it is likely that they will withdraw these forces in an attempt to consolidate their positions in eastern and southern Ukraine.

«Thus, they dream of expanding the territory of the so-called ‘LPR’ and ‘DPR’, uniting this land with the occupied Crimea and cutting off Ukraine from the Black and Azov seas. This will probably be the main blow. In recent days, there has been a build-up and escalation,” explains Alina Frolova.


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Missiles and prohibited weapons

Missile stockpiles in Russia, unfortunately, are very large.

«Russia claims a huge number of missiles. These figures are incomparable with the amount they have already used. But Russian statistics should not be trusted. The numbers may be inflated. There is no civilian control over the army and a non-transparent accounting system. Some of these missiles could be sold. Others could be low quality: they do not reach or detonate. But still, we can’t say that the missiles will run out in Russia in a few weeks,” the expert explains.

The use of chemical, biological, tactical nuclear weapons by Russia, the organization of disasters at the Chornobyl or Zaporozhye nuclear power plants — is quite realistic.

«There are no restraints on Putin. He uses all possible weapons in order to put pressure. Since Russia has declared war on the destruction of the Ukrainian nation, the Russians can use anything. Moreover, we have seen that Russia has used chemical weapons in Syria.

Russia also threatens to use such weapons to blackmail Ukraine and the world. He (Putin) is trying to bargain for negotiating power. If they see the need to raise the stakes, I see no obstacles to the use of such weapons. I would say that the risk is moderately high,» Alina Frolova said.


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We must not forget that on March 30 the General Staff reported: Russia is gathering forces near the Chornobyl NPP.

The day before, the General Staff warned that by withdrawing troops from the territory of Kyiv and Chernihiv oblasts, the Russian army will regroup to strengthen in the eastern direction.

“The so-called ‘withdrawal’ is probably a rotation of individual units. It aims to mislead the military leadership of the Armed Forces of Ukraine and create a misconception about the occupiers’ refusal to plan to encircle the city of Kyiv,» the Ukrainian military stressed.

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Russian occupiers continue to push for schools in occupied territories to teach according to their own standards and in Russian, reported the General Staff of the Armed Forces. 

The report by the General Staff says that teachers who agree to these conditions will receive monetary rewards granted by the occupiers. 

«In addition, the Russian troops continue to attempt to distribute so-called ‘humanitarian aid’ to the locals. At the same time, they are taking food and medicine that is coming from Zaporizhia, and is meant for civilians,” said the General Staff. 

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